Many years ago there was a popular book called “Never Eat Alone.”  Before Smart Phones and iPads, I followed the author’s advice and used my single dinners on the road as opportunities to meet new people.  Most often, I had interesting conversations, learned a lot and sometimes even stumbled onto a business opportunity.

However, today the world has changed.  The minute you sit down on an airplane you start reviewing your email messages or making calls.  I pull out my Kindle and quickly immerse myself in a good book.  The message to other travelers:  “Don’t bother me, I’m busy.”

Last night, that changed.  I was on a late flight to New York and the gentleman seated next to me struck up a conversation.  Somewhat reluctantly I engaged.  Soon we discovered we are both lawyers and we had a lively conversation about the current state of our legal system.

I learned about his business.  He learned about mine.  And before we arrived at our destination we exchanged cards with the promise to explore opportunities to collaborate.

Two things struck me as I was riding in the taxi to my destination.  First, how quickly the flight went because I was engaged in such an interesting conversation with someone well-versed in a variety of topics.  Secondly, how much I would have missed if I’d buried my nose in my Kindle or laptop instead of actually interacting with a fellow passenger.

What do you think?  Have our electronics taken the place of old fashioned conversation?  Are we missing out on the opportunity to broaden our horizons and meet new people.

I’m headed for another airport today and I wonder what I’ll do.  Will I resort to the old habits or will I remember the interesting man and last night’s conversation and open myself up to meeting someone new?  Stay tuned.

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